Thank you for reminding us in a world of striking back that as Christians we can only show Jesus to the world by humbling ourselves to love as Jesus did - everyone.
Growing up my neighbors were Mormons. Very nice people, my parents liked them & allowed me to attend their church, mostly for Boy Scouts. They also had good stories with life lessons. Unfortunately I don’t remember them that well. Are there simple children stories you recommend?
Thanks for your reflections Scott. I'm reminded that the power of the Holy Spirit is perhaps not so much seen in dramatic 'signs and wonders' but in seeking the strength required for quiet and compassionate forbearance, forgiveness and reconciliation...
Isn't it amazing how kindness can unexpectedly break through even the toughest barriers? Sometimes we forget that kindness opens the door to friendship.
We not only can use the great examples of Jesus kindness and forgiveness, but we must use these examples as our way of life, for if we don't forgive others we won't be forgiven:
For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Thank you Scott...this is beautiful and such a encouraging example of what can happen when a soft answer turns away wrath and when we genuinely love one another...
Currently in a tough position with family members who have thorns. Your gracious words lead to more insight into how to address unrepentant offenders. In this scenario, the offender demonstrated his own self loathing. Walking in grace is key to reconciliation. Thank you for this insightful confirmation.
This is so very timely and personally convicting *and* comforting to me. The “way” that brings *life.*
But….. (maybe you knew there was a “but” coming :) )….. Jesus also had strong words of confronting wrong, when his grace-filled interactions of pursuing love were repeatedly rejected by blind and hardened hearts.
Please, can you address the challenges of holding both these truths in the same hand? I am so thirsty for wisdom, as I find myself in this excruciating space. (And these dynamics are with fellow *believers*.)
Unity…… requires speaking the truth in love. And there *is* objective truth that is independent of my limited and fallen faculties and divided heart…… right?
Thanks for your comments! My most thorough treatment of this question is my book called "A Gentle Answer." Especially the chapter on what to do with our anger.
I will pick up the book again! I had trouble reading it because I’m in such a challenging place. I think I needed to hear “unbalanced” truth for my particular situation, first. With the ultimate goal of “balancing” both. (David Powlison)
Maybe you would agree that wise “balancing” is one thing the church currently desperately needs?
Thank you for reminding us in a world of striking back that as Christians we can only show Jesus to the world by humbling ourselves to love as Jesus did - everyone.
Growing up my neighbors were Mormons. Very nice people, my parents liked them & allowed me to attend their church, mostly for Boy Scouts. They also had good stories with life lessons. Unfortunately I don’t remember them that well. Are there simple children stories you recommend?
The Jesus Storybook Bible!
Thank you!
Great message & well written article.
Thank you for your words, and for the reminder.
In Jesus name, Amen
Thanks for your reflections Scott. I'm reminded that the power of the Holy Spirit is perhaps not so much seen in dramatic 'signs and wonders' but in seeking the strength required for quiet and compassionate forbearance, forgiveness and reconciliation...
Isn't it amazing how kindness can unexpectedly break through even the toughest barriers? Sometimes we forget that kindness opens the door to friendship.
We not only can use the great examples of Jesus kindness and forgiveness, but we must use these examples as our way of life, for if we don't forgive others we won't be forgiven:
For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
(Matt 6:14-15)
Thank you Scott...this is beautiful and such a encouraging example of what can happen when a soft answer turns away wrath and when we genuinely love one another...
Currently in a tough position with family members who have thorns. Your gracious words lead to more insight into how to address unrepentant offenders. In this scenario, the offender demonstrated his own self loathing. Walking in grace is key to reconciliation. Thank you for this insightful confirmation.
Great story! And an even better lesson.
This is so very timely and personally convicting *and* comforting to me. The “way” that brings *life.*
But….. (maybe you knew there was a “but” coming :) )….. Jesus also had strong words of confronting wrong, when his grace-filled interactions of pursuing love were repeatedly rejected by blind and hardened hearts.
Please, can you address the challenges of holding both these truths in the same hand? I am so thirsty for wisdom, as I find myself in this excruciating space. (And these dynamics are with fellow *believers*.)
Unity…… requires speaking the truth in love. And there *is* objective truth that is independent of my limited and fallen faculties and divided heart…… right?
I often wonder how Luther handled this dilemma?
Hoping you can provide some wisdom.
Thanks for your comments! My most thorough treatment of this question is my book called "A Gentle Answer." Especially the chapter on what to do with our anger.
I will pick up the book again! I had trouble reading it because I’m in such a challenging place. I think I needed to hear “unbalanced” truth for my particular situation, first. With the ultimate goal of “balancing” both. (David Powlison)
Maybe you would agree that wise “balancing” is one thing the church currently desperately needs?
Thank you for listening and responding. ❤️
Wonderful and so very helpful. As always, thank you.
This is worth saving and sharing! We all need this reminder. You are a good man.